He was after radicalisation and how it is part of your opponents or sometimes enemies(your situation) tactics to expose you and more what you stand for as ugly, haters driving away the mainstream folks....

And to some extent it does work... Most feel confortable to call you french.... and don't think they should be asking you if you do accept it and or accept to speak french as it isn't the language of the Land.... They are not educated.... I wish you had the opportunity to visit Florida, you'd see a very different world...